How to Quickly Gain More Confidence and Mojo During Divorce… Even If You Think There’s No Hope

We so often get worked up when the Divorce Bomb explodes.

Hyperventilating about losing everything, never seeing my kids, living down by the river eating government cheese.

Outsourcing is evil.

Not the corporate kind; outsourcing our feelings of self-worth and happiness to our wife and kids.

Only existing in the provider/father/husband dimension neglects our inner value.

I remember waking up in a cold sweat in the middle of the night, struggling to breathe.

Dry retching in the morning after recalling everything that sucked and that life as I knew it was over.

Grasping blindly in the dark for something to hold onto in my personal storm of losing a parent, career and marriage in less than a week.

One day it hit me in the shower.

Some of my best thinking happens there. How about you?

I was fine.

This wasn’t being done to me, it was for me to grow into the man I was meant to be.

Helping men through the pain and fire of uncertainty.

Right away, it was like the blinders fell away.

I could see more clearly than in a long time.

Leading me here had a meaning and lesson.

“Keep Going, See Where This Leads”, it whispered to me.

That self-destructive, fight to the death, victory at all costs didn’t matter anymore.

Too many times, I was so busy holding on for fear of the unknown to realize there were things which no longer served me in my life.

I knew I wasn’t happy but I kept trudging on.

What’s my lesson?

I stopped getting pissed at everything being done to me and got on with creating a better life.

Almost three years later, life has changed in many wonderful and unforeseen ways.

I've gone on to experience life as richer and more meaningful due to the relationships I have built with great men.

My cup is overflowing with purpose and deep wisdom gained the hard way.

One of the great turning points was being involved with men of substance and character.  

Learning from them that my secret fear of being judged by other men was just that, fear we all shared

They struggle with the same issues you and I do.

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